I don’t think that I have to explain to you the fantasy of being able to get back in the sack with an ex girlfriend. We all have had those moments when you think back on an old flame and wonder what it would be like to have one more romp with her. That desire magnifies 10 fold when you still carry feelings for that ex girlfriend. You imagine that it probably wouldn’t be too hard to get back together - if you were able to get her back in bed with you. Is there any hope in your future for being able to seduce your ex girlfriend?
There MIGHT be.
Seducing an ex girlfriend requires a little more finesse and patience than it takes to seduce a woman with whom you have no previous history with. You have to be careful with the way that you approach an ex, because if she thinks it is all about the sex - chances are good that she is going to end up building up a wall that is hard for you penetrate.
Here are 3 tips that should help you to get back in the sack with your ex:
1) You have to find a way to get into contact with her once more.
This can be hard to do if there has been a long gap with no communication between you and her. On the other hand, if you are still in contact with her or if it hasn’t been a long time, then it should be relatively easy for you. Here’s a tip for if it has been a long time: Call her up to catch up on old times and then end the conversation in a way that leaves the possibility for future conversations OPEN. If a lot of time has passed, you may have to talk to her a few times before you can move on to the next step.
2) Once you have contact with her, you need to be able to see her face to face.
Okay, so there is a little bit you have to do before you see her face to face. You have to do a little bit of harmless and playful flirting with her, with a light sexual tone. That shouldn’t be too hard to do, right? Well, once you have done that, get her to hang out with you without any context as to why you want to hang out. Just get her to hang out for the fun of it.
3) Finally - you need to be able to take her home.
This is where the MAGIC happens. Your place. Or hers, but preferably yours if you can. I can’t show you ALL of the steps that you need to take to get from seeing her face to face to the point where you can take her home on a blog post. However, this is the final step that you need to be able to take with your ex girlfriend if you want to seduce her. You can’t hope for something to happen in the backseat of a car. You have to DO THIS RIGHT and that means that the setting has to be safe and somewhat familiar to her.